tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8687181983585813255.post5850376727038407291..comments2023-03-31T02:13:36.470-07:00Comments on Share My thoughts On Day To Day challanges!: A Child’s Innocence, lost?Rainbow In The Grey Skyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11884199498310835920noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8687181983585813255.post-27396750561970659152009-11-14T14:17:36.687-08:002009-11-14T14:17:36.687-08:00It sounds unbelievably graphic! There is just no n...It sounds unbelievably graphic! There is just no need to teach positions and all that!<br /><br />I totally agree that the way it's currently taught creates the expectation to have sex without marriage, and that's a problem for people of any faith. At the very least kids should be encouraged to think for themselves about what is the appropriate relationship context. In Holland that's how it's done, and despite how liberal the culture is, kids actually wait longer on average. Here in the UK the educators focus on not sounding judgmental, or not trying to tell kids what to do or not to do, because they think the kids will do stuff anyway and they might not seek advice about protection etc if they feel judged. So basically the kids just learn that it's expected that they start having sex. So sad.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02011831388171403444noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8687181983585813255.post-73255215680785543002009-11-13T22:34:19.152-08:002009-11-13T22:34:19.152-08:00Assalaamu Alaykum,
I am 100% with you on this sis...Assalaamu Alaykum,<br /><br />I am 100% with you on this sis! There is no way I'd agree to having my kids sit through one of those "lessons"!!! Something as sensitive as this has to be taught by Mum in my opinion. That way you decide when and how you want to explan things to them. Honesty is key and reference to Allah's Word and examples of the sunnah are vital. Although I've taken a step towards educating one of my children on sexual matters, it's a little easier for me because I know that she will cover it in her Fiqh class this year. But I know how it will be taught and I'm happy with supplementing it if I need to at home.Fruitful Fusionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04242283924268422324noreply@blogger.com